What are good ways to lose weight???

I am constantly obsessed with my weight. It is on the back of my mind at all times. I even think about it while My Hero Hafifi complains bout my size,I know that if I lost about 10kg I would be happier and I could focus more on other things. Okay, so lately i've been trying to lose weight and its hard bcoz i get so lazy and i hate jogging at all!!hahaa~I i want to get in shape, i want to look good! and i have a bf so i want him to be able to carry me haha!! cheesy~~ i know... but hey its true! so what can i do to get in shape? i want to start now! so guys,! plz give me advise how to decrease weight...what shall i do and eat daily to keep me fit & suggest me some excercise also...